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Getting Over The
Hurt
I remember being told that the person I was seriously
dating didnīt want to see me anymore. I remember the pain.
It hurt so bad, I was sick to my stomach. I didnīt want to
get out of bed; I just wanted to cry and cry. My family
said, "In time, your feelings will change." I didn't want to
hear that; you may not either...yet. Only with time will you
be able to deal with the pain. Soon you will realize that
you need to move on; that you are a good person; and that
the person who broke up with you made a choice. You can make
your own choices, too...in time.
You Are A Person Of Worth
Not all surprises are good ones. Breaking up unexpectedly
with your boyfriend or girlfriend is a bad surprise.
Sometimes the break up can be a very unfriendly experience.
You feel rejected. You may even start questioning your
worth. When a break up happens, it is important to step back
and breathe. Don't take responsibility for everything that
went wrong. Realize that if your partner no longer wants to
be with you, you shouldn't want to be with someone who feels
that way about you. Look for ways to change your day-to-day
routine so you don't feel your partner's absence. Look to
the future and try to learn from your past relationship.
Breaking Up Without Going To Pieces
In the article, "Breaking up without going to pieces,"
author Gawain Wells discusses strategies for dealing with a
breaking up. To successfuly move on, he suggests:
1) Donīt have a pity party. It is okay to feel bad, but an
extended pity party can turn into depression.
2) Be grateful that you arenīt going to be dating someone
who doesnīt want to date you anymore.
3) Figure out a game plan for moving on.
4) Be confident. Learn from your mistake and course correct
so it doesnīt happen again.
5) Learn from every dating experience. Constantly
self-evaluate and learn to break bad patterns.
Until You Know
Someone
Thanks to technology, singles today can date people from
every walk of life. This advance means that they can date
people from outside of their hometowns, their church
communities, their local high schools and universities, so
they no longer know if their dates share their same values
and standards. If you do not know the values of your date,
the easiest way to find out is to ask. Give your date
hypothetical situations and see how he/she responds; treat
it as a fun Q&A! If you continue to date, their standards
and values will be come more apparent in their actions. But
until you know a person's values well, you should probably
date in public places amongst people where you feel safe. |